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A Girl Power Tour of Arashiyama

Definitely want to visit this part of Kyoto! And a day tour of powerful women in the area sounds pretty boss!

Believe it or not, while I was in Japan my friend who I was visiting had to work! We took the opportunity to spend some time in Kyoto. I’d have a hard time deciding on a favorite place I visited while in Japan, but I could definitely see myself living in that city. Even within the city streets, I found my soul once again moved by the immense beauty that can be found across the Pacific Ocean.

One neighborhood we knew we wanted to hit while we were there was Arashiyama. This is where you’ll find the famed bamboo forest among a million other cultural delights. I planned this part of the trip pretty strategically as I wanted to optimize our time without feeling rushed. As I did so, I also unintentionally planned a very girl power tour of Arashiyama–which ended up being a very cool thing.

Otagi Nenbutsu-ji Temple


The first thing we did on Arashiyama day was hop onto a train crowded with tourists from central Kyoto to Arashiyama. The ride was pretty quick–only a few stops–but hot and claustrophobic.

Luckily, when we got off the train we were headed somewhere a little off the beaten path: Otagi Nenbutsu-ji Temple. To get there, we took a cab for the sake of time. It was part way up a mountain, and from there, we’d be walking downhill (almost) all day as the sites got progressively more crowded.

But I think we were the first visitors of the day at this temple, and only a few couples came in after us. It was quiet and serene and peaceful.

Oh, and littered with a ton of Buddha statues. Twelve hundred of them to be exact.

These statues were made by lay worshipers under the instruction of an artisan in the 80s, and are meant to demonstrate the many expressions of Buddha–or disciples of Buddha. It depends on which literature you read, and I probably should have asked which it was while i was there. Many of them are serious and spiritual, but then there are fun-loving ones, too.

Be sure to follow on Instagram to see more fun photos of these statues this week!

But those statues aren’t the reason Otagi Nenbutsu-ji makes the Girl Power list. First, the temple was founded by a woman: Empress Shotoku. Built in the eighth century, its been destroyed, rebuilt and relocated several times since its inaugural opening.

On top of having a female-led history, the temple itself is dedicated to two important bodhisittvas: the goddess of mercy and the goddess of space. There are beautiful statues of these bodhisittvas both inside and out, but you’re not supposed to take pictures inside of Buddhist temples.

Admission here was less than $3 each.

Tori Motto

historical road preserved road kyoto

When you’re done at Otagi Nenbutsu-ji, you’ll turn right on the road closest to the temple–the one lined by trees on the right side.

About two to five minutes down the road you’ll see a big, orange tori gate leading to a stone road on which I saw no cars. This is Tori Motto, and it is an ancient and historically preserved street.

The architecture itself is beautiful, with thatched roofs covered with moss. But as you walk the road, you’ll be greeted by various shops and restuarants. We didn’t eat here, but I did do some shopping. Which, if you know me, is a little out of character.

But I was enchanted by the fans and origami. Blown away by the skill that went into making hand bags and jewelry. This is where I was going to buy traditional Japanese chatchkis to bring home to my kids. And a new purse. Because mine had not-so-conveniently broken on the the walk from Otagi Nenbutsu-ji to the Tori Motto.

All but one of the shops I went into was owned by Japanese women.

Gio-ji Temple

Moss garden temple Kyoto

Gio-ji was the temple I was most looking forward to visiting in Arashiyama. It was located just off the Tori Motto right where it tees. This temple is known for its moss gardens, which looked crazy serene and peaceful in the pictures. Heck, it looks serene and peaceful in my pictures.

But it had been very dry in the region to this point in our visit, and without rain the gardens looked a little, well, brownish yellow. With a little bit of green. It sounds super ungrateful to say something like that, but really what I think happened is that I made it so beautiful in my head that there was no way reality could keep pace.

It did rain a couple days later, and I’m sure the gardens turned lush and green at that point.

But this temple did not disappoint. While the gardens weren’t quite what I expected, the actual structure was a great experience. It’s humble in size, but inside you’ll find statues of four women, which I assumed were meant to pay tribute to the women who founded this site.

The primary leader, Gio, was a dancer who fell hard for a powerful chieftain in the country’s capital. He fell hard for her, too–until he didn’t. When he abandoned her, she decided to dedicate her life to Buddha, establishing Gio-ji.

She lived the rest of her life as a priestess, as did her mom and sister who came along with her. Someone else that came with her? Another one of that cheiftan’s ex-lovers!

Dude sounds like a piece of work.

But going in to pray in front of those four figures was something special. A reminder that strength and virtue don’t come from the value men see in us.

Admission here was less than $5 each.

Tenryu-ji Temple

garden path tenryu-ji temple

Okay, so technically, Tenryu-ji was founded by a male shogun in the 1300s. However, on this same site in the ninth century, Empress Tachibana no Kachiko founded Japan’s very first Zen Buddhist temple: Danrin-ji. Thus, it definitely counts for our girl power tour.

This is probably the biggest tourist attraction in Arashiyama, so it was very crowded. We weren’t really sure how much inner peace we were going to find inside at that particular moment, and wanted to save 500 yen each, so we opted to just do the gardens.



There is nothing “just” about the gardens at Tenryu-ji–especially at peak cherry blossom season. They’re beautifully manicured–simultaneously delicate and robust. Every corner we turned was breathtaking, whether we were walking alongside the temple or up a path in the adjacent mountain.

I’m sure the temple is amazing; there must be a reason it was so crowded. But definitely, definitely don’t miss the gardens.

Admission here cost us a little less than $5 each just for the garden. It would have doubled if we had chosen to go into the temple, too.

Bamboo Forest

CROWDS bamboo forest arashiyama

Throughout Arashiyama we found ourselves surrounded by bamboo, but the main alley that you see all the pictures of is right outside the gardens of Tenryu-ji. It’s amazing and magical, but also super crowded. The path is shorter than we thought it would be, but it’s definitely still worth a walk through. Especially since it’s free. Just make sure your expectations are matched with its actual length and the amount of fellow tourists you’ll encounter.

We cut through it on our way to our final destination of the day, which had nothing to do with girl power and deserves a post unto itself.

Stay tuned for next Friday…


Shrines are Cheaper Than Temples

Great travel tip! I want to visit so many spiritual sites while I'm in Japan, and now I know how to do it more affordably to make the most out of our trip.

When we were planning our trip to Japan, I was really interested in seeing Buddhist temples. We did that, and it was amazing, and I’ll tell you all about it on another day.

Somehow, though, I overlooked another spiritual option: Shinto shrines.

They’re completely different and separate from Buddhism as I understand it, and serve to worship the spirits of the natural world. They were everywhere–in the middle of the city, the countryside, near natural wonders…

I felt a ton of peace at these shrines as I watched others come to pray. These shrines appear to be an integral part of Japanese life, so our friend taught us how to pray, too.

Kishiki Shrine

Kishiki shrine

The very first shrine we visited was the Kishiki Shrine behind Kishiwada Castle–which is also beautiful and worth a visit.

Here, we learned about the spirits of nature, and how they are never represented with icons. We learned to wash our hands and mouths, offer up our goyen (5 yen coin), ring the bell to alert the spirits of our presence, bow, clap our hands, pray and bow again.

We also learned of the fortunes you can purchase, as our friend was kind enough to get us each one. my sibling got a very lucky one and I got a medium luck one. But if you get bad luck, you can hang your fortune on these clothesline-like cords, and hope that prayers will remove your ill fortune.

Study Shrine in Wakayama

prayer plaque japan shrine

This shrine was located not too far away from a school my friends attended. Here, you’d come to pray for luck on an exam or other school-related endeavor. This is where I learned you can also purchase these plaques–you write the thing you’re hoping for on the back, and then hang it with others’ prayers.

To get to this one, you climb some pretty steep steps–or go around the side and climb up a trail. The views from the top were way worth it.

Shrines are Cheaper than Temples

We did visit other shrines–most notably Fushimi-Inari. That’s coming in a future post.

I’m hesitant to tie money to spirituality, but I know you’re all here because of the personal finance. While there were some extras you could purchase at the Shinto shrines, visiting them was 100% free. You could spend the equivalent of less than a nickel if you wanted to pray, and you could go on to get your fortune or put your prayer to pen with a plaque, but it wasn’t a requirement.

Buddhist temples, however, did sometimes have a few extras you could purchase, but were primarily somewhere from 300-500 yen just to visit the grounds. It wasn’t money I minded parting with, but if you’re planning on visiting Japan and want to hit as many spiritual sites as possible, that’s definitely something to keep in mind with the budget: shrines are more affordable.

More Shrine Pictures

Don’t forget to follow on Instagram for more shrine and castle pictures this week. We visited some really gorgeous locations courtesy of my amazing friend and host–you will want to see them!


Nachi Katsuura: Of Sunrise and Waterfalls

This is the most beautiful place I've never heard of. Putting Nachi Katsuura, Japan on my travel bucket list!

After we appreciated how free and beautiful nature can be in Shirahama, we ventured across mainland Japan to Nachi Katsuura. My friend had just started working in the rural town, and it’s not something that would have been on our itinerary otherwise.

I’m here to tell you that it should be on yours.

Driving there was awesome–we got to see so many things along the way that we would have missed with another mode of transportation. Because we were driving from Wakayama, a good portion of the trek was along the shore. So the things we saw once again were free because they were natural. And they were stunning.

Hashigui-Iwa Rocks

rock formations wakayama

I heard a couple stories about the Hashigui-iwa rock formations. One told of gods placing the imposing, shattered stones where they are.

Another said the people of the region kept trying to build a bridge, but a sea monster surfaced after each attempt, destroying their work.

Geologically, this likely used to be all one rock face, and tsunamis destroyed it over time, shattering some of the rocks and moving others closer to the shore.

Whatever story you want to believe, it’s a really incredible thing to see.

The Tallest Waterfall in Japan

tallest waterfall in Japan

The tallest waterfall in Japan is located in Nachi Katsuura, and it’s a sight to behold. At its base is a shrine where locals can pay reverence and ask favors of the spirits living inside this natural wonder. We got there later in the day, but I also believe there are shrines as you work your way up the mountain. Across the top of the waterfall, there are boundary markers which are regularly replaced in Shinto fashion.

The waterfall itself is breathtaking, but the surrounding mountains add to the beauty. I may have cried in Shirahama, but my sibling held back tears in Nachi Katsuura. In that moment, taking in the gargantuan majesty of the mountains, I believed as the people of old that these edifices of nature’s sheer power held within them spirits that were older than time itself.

Sunrise in the Land of the Rising Sun

sun rise nachi katsuura

We were only in Nachi Katsuura for one night, but the next morning we rose early to watch the sun rise over the Pacific Ocean–an experience I’ll never forget. The beach in the small town is gorgeous, with sand and stone steps and picnic areas along grassy outcrops.

When the sun breaks free of the horizon, it truly is red for a while–something I have seen nowhere else. Once it gets higher in the sky it turns more yellow and then white, but its first presentation is reflective of the country’s flag. If you’re on the East Coast of Japan, I’d highly encourage you to wake up early to witness the magnificence of Sol.

See More on Instagram

All of these fantastic experiences were free. And I’ll be sharing more images of them on Instagram over the next week. It was crazy beautiful, so be sure to follow along!

Nature is Free: The Raw Beauty of Shirahama

I had never even heard of Shirahama, Japan before. But now its white sand beaches and rock formations are on my travel bucket list!

When we went to Japan, I was expecting to be in awe of the massive cities.

And I was.

What I wasn’t expecting was to be exposed to the inspiring beauty of the Japanese countryside. Fortunately, my friend and host knew what she was doing. She purposefully took us to some of the most beautiful sites I’ve seen in the world.

One of those places was Shirahama.

The Onsen Resort Town

resort town japan

During the day, my friend took us to one of her favorite places: Adventure World. The experience we had at the part-amusement-park-part-zoo was one I’ll never forget, but I won’t spend a lot of time on it because it is a bit expensive. In full disclosure, my friend insisted on paying our admission–for which we were incredibly grateful.

Adventure World is in Shirahama. While its’ a huge attraction, it’s far from the only one. This is a resort town built around onsens–or natural hot springs. You can visit the hot springs–like my sibling did–but keep in mind that you’ll be doing so naked per Japanese custom. Men’s and women’s onsens are separated for this reason.

Senjojiki Rock Formations

senjojiki in shirahama japan

While my sibling was at the onsen, I visited some rocky formations on the coast with my friends. These formations were unlike anything I had ever seen. They were truly other-worldly.

The outcrop of geology was formed by a combination of the collision of tectonic plates, earthquakes, tsunamis, volcanic magma and erosion. These processes happened over a period of millions of years, and resulted in what is known as known as Senjojiki–or One Thousand Tatami Mats.

shirahama in march

They’re simultaneously flat and steep, so you can walk out over them towards the sea–even standing on the ledge as the waves crash in on the rocks. But you do have to be careful as getting up on top of some of the formations requires more climbing than hiking.

For the part I visited, you didn’t need a carabiner and rope or anything, but you did want to check your footing and know where you were going to put your hands in some places.

Shirahama’s White Sand Beach

Sunset over the Pacific Ocean

I have been told that “Shirahama” translates to “white beach.” As in looks-like-a-Carribean-white-sand-beach-with-crystal-blue-waters white beach.

It’s incredible, beautiful, and not at all what I expected in Japan. The fine, white sand stretches along nearly 550 yards of shoreline, and is as picturesque as anything you’ve ever seen. We were lucky enough to watch the sun set there over the Pacific Ocean.

Nature is Free

White sand beach in the distance.

Shirahama was one of the most transformative experiences I had while visiting Japan. It’s raw and wild beauty literally moved me to tears.

Don’t judge until you’ve experienced it yourself.

As I sat there crying, I realized that the old adage really is true:

“The best things in life are free.”

(Though the onsen did cost my sibling a couple bucks.)

Bonus Photos

Don’t forget to follow me on Instagram! I started an account specifically to share extra Japan pictures with you guys, and Shirahama is not a week you’ll want to miss!


How I Stayed in Tokyo for Free

She stayed at some REALLY nice hotels for free. Definitely pinning for the trip to Japan I'm planning!

Oh, man, guys. I just got back from a huge trip to Japan, and it was indescribably amazing. As one Belgian tech guru told me one night as some of us were sitting around a fantastic meal:

“I think coming here has changed me.”

I have so much I want to tell you, and I’m going to take several weeks to do just that. Every Friday, we’ll talk a little about saving money while exploring this breathtaking country. We’ll start with accommodations.

How I Stayed in Tokyo for Free

Originally, we were supposed to fly into Osaka, but that involved a long, complicated layover in Tokyo anyways, so I called and lopped off that leg of our flight. My sibling and I spent our first night and last nights in Japan in the capital of Tokyo, and we did it for free.

Westin Tokyo

westin tokyo review

I had built up some SPG points from business travel. I had enough for one free reward stay at the Westin Tokyo, which I was pretty psyched about.

I wasn’t nearly psyched enough. We took a bus from Narita to our digs. When we walked in the entry way, my sibling dropped their jaw and said, “Holy sh!t, Femme.”

The lobby was gorgeous. Dark wood colors lined the walls accented with gold. I’m pretty sure our footsteps echoed off the sky-high ceilings as we walked back to the check-in desk, where we were greeted by the sweetest and most generous host ever. She treated me like royalty even as I stood there in my yoga pants and tee, surely reeking of the 29 hours of straight travel I had just endured.

Not only was she nice, she upgraded our room–which already would have cost hundreds upon hundreds of dollars without points–to a suite. A gorgeous, two-room suite with one and a half baths. I took a rainfall shower that night before we went out to find some food, and soaked in a pink, cherry blossom bath the next morning before we set out on our journey.

view from westin tokyo

That night, we gazed out over the dazzling city with views of Tokyo tower gracing our window. The next morning, we grabbed some breakfast in the club lounge and kind of sort of talked, but mostly just sat there in awe as we took in yet another astonishing view.

The neighborhood, Ebisu, was super nice and just about my speed. There was shopping and dining, and a tasteful amount of nightlife. We walked by ice cream shops and bakeries as we stumbled upon gardens full of vibrant flowers–including one such garden directly behind the hotel.

Staying at the Westin was definitely the right way to start our trip.


shinjuku mural

Our last two nights in Japan, we stayed in the heart of Shinjuku. We found an Airbnb that would have run us about $200 for both nights if I hadn’t had Airbnb credits that cancelled out all the costs. If you’ve never used Airbnb before, I highly recommend it as a great way to save money when you travel. You can get your own $40 travel credit when you signup here.

I wasn’t as big of a fan of Shinjuku. I’m pretty sure most people would consider that blaspheme. Part of my disenchantment undoubtedly had to do with the fact that I spent a good portion of my time there holed up in the Airbnb as I had caught a cold.

But from the walking around I did do, it was full of high-end shopping, tons of night life and at least one series of hotels where people go to have sex. I get that all that excitement is enticing for a lot of people. I’m just not super into high-end clothing and clubbing.

Also, I may have missed massive parts of the neighborhood and be passing unfair judgement. Because sick.

Where did you stay the rest of the two weeks?

Great question! I was originally going to title this post, “How I Stayed in Japan for 2 Weeks for Under $400,” but I decided against that because it would be a little misleading.

This entire trip was spurred on by the fact that one of my longest friends is a native of Osaka. We went to Japan to visit her and her family. We stayed with her family in Osaka, Wakayama, and Nachi Katsuura. I hadn’t seen my friend in seven years, and her family in 22. They are such wonderful people *trying not to cry right now* and made us feel so welcome in their homes.

But most Americans probably don’t have a family friend waiting for them in Japan ready to open up their home to them, so my situation was unique and fortunate.

The Guest House in Kyoto

kyoto guest house

We were there for a while, though, and people gotta work. So we spent about five days in Kyoto on our own, exploring the ancient city. I was planning on using Airbnb for that, too, but it turns out that if you’re in Japan for cherry blossom season, waiting to book an Airbnb three weeks prior to your arrival in Kyoto is not a great idea. In fact, it’s a crazy expensive one.

After some panicked searching, I found something called a guest house through Hotels.com–where I’m currently only a couple nights away from earning yet another free stay.

Ours, the Yuraku, was Japanese-owned and geared towards Japanese guests. One room with bunk beds ran each of us $385, and I’d be lying if I said I don’t plan on getting that number down further by applying some of the credit card points I earned during our sojourn to that purchase in the next couple weeks.

When a guest house is geared towards Japanese guests, they will ask you to be very quiet. Everything will be super clean and peaceful.

We learned from our host that when the place is geared towards Westerners, it tends to be a bit more rowdy and sociable.

Different strokes.

We enjoyed our stay at the Yuraku. I had booked it because it was available and somewhat affordable, but I would book it again because unbeknownst to me, it was in a great location in a beautiful neighborhood with a ton of amenities–like good food, a famous bathhouse, and coin-op laundry–just steps outside the door.

Get more Japan Pictures!

A lot of people have asked me to post my Japan pictures on Instagram. Just one problem: twenty-four hours ago, I didn’t have an account!

But I got so many requests that I have now set one up so I can share all the beauty I beheld while I was away. I know I shared quite a few images in this post, but I’m going to be sharing more exclusively on that channel throughout the week.

Everyday at 1pm Eastern time, I’ll have a new one up there for you guys, so be sure to give me a follow!

In exciting Twitter news…

Financial literacy twitter chat

Also, want to let you all know that I’ll be co-hosting a Twitter chat on Thursday with my friend Tori from Tomorrow! You can join us at 8p Eastern on April 26, 2018 to discuss financial literacy.

Come whether you have questions on how you can improve your financial literacy or ideas on how others can get improve their money knowledge. It’s the first one ever, so I’d be so psyched to see you using the hashtag #TomorrowTalk!