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There is a quiet shift happening in the housing market, and it has everything to do with us. Single women now make up a larger share of homebuyers than at almost any point on record.

According to the National Association of Realtors, single women accounted for 21 percent of all buyers in the most recent survey, more than double the 9 percent share held by single men. We are buying condos and starter homes and the houses we plan to grow old in, often on one income, frequently without waiting for anyone else to sign off on the decision.

That is genuinely good news, and it has been a long time coming.

Here is the part that gets far less attention:

Women, and single women especially, tend to pay more for the very mortgage that makes all of it possible. Not because we are worse borrowers. Because of how the system reads us on paper.

Single women pay higher mortgage rates

Research from the Urban Institute has tracked this pattern for years, and its 2025 update confirms the gap has not closed. Solo female borrowers are charged higher interest rates than solo male borrowers, and they are turned down more often, largely because they arrive with weaker credit profiles and a higher share of higher-priced loans.

That sounds like a neutral, math-based outcome until you look at what happens after the paperwork is signed. When researchers held credit scores, loan sizes, and loan-to-value ratios steady and compared genuinely similar borrowers, single women defaulted less often than single men.

The credit characteristics lenders lean on, in other words, overstate the risk women actually carry. We are paying a premium for a danger that never shows up.

Income’s role in the equation

Some of the gap traces back to income. Single female buyers report the lowest median household income of any group the Realtors track, and income shapes everything downstream, from the size of the loan to the debt-to-income ratio a lender sees to the interest rate that gets attached to it. Some of it is structural in ways no single person can fix from her own living room.

But a meaningful slice of it is fixable right there at the kitchen table, and that is the slice worth pouring your energy into.

What you can do about it

The most effective move is also the one most buyers skip:

Get more than one quote.

It sounds almost too obvious to bother with, yet it matters more than nearly anything else you will do.

Lenders quote different rates to the same person on the same afternoon, and that spread grows wider when overall rates are elevated. Freddie Mac found that during higher-rate stretches, borrowers who collected quotes from two lenders saved around $600 a year, while those who compared four or more saved upward of $1,200 a year.

Spread across a thirty-year loan, that is not a rounding error. That is a reliable car, or a year of daycare, or the emergency fund you keep promising yourself you will build.

How to shop for the best mortgage rate

To shop well, you need a baseline — some sense of what a normal rate looks like today so you can tell whether an offer is competitive or quietly padded. Checking a lender’s posted current mortgage rates before you talk to a soul gives you exactly that, usually broken out by loan type so you can see how a conventional thirty-year stacks up against an FHA or VA option.

Walk into the conversation already knowing the going range and the whole dynamic shifts. You stop asking what a lender is willing to give you and start checking whether what they offer measures up.

A few habits make the comparison cleaner:

• Pull all your quotes inside a short window, ideally a week or two, so the credit inquiries get bundled as a single event and your score barely flinches.
• Compare the APR rather than the headline interest rate, since the APR folds in the fees and points and tells you what the money actually costs.
• Do not be shy about saying out loud that you are shopping. Loan officers expect it, and the knowledge that you are holding other offers is frequently the thing that nudges the number in your favor.

Remember that refinancing is an option

There is a second place women tend to leave money on the table, and it arrives later. When rates fall, refinancing can shave a real amount off a monthly payment, yet the Urban Institute found that single women, and single women of color in particular, refinance less often than men even when the math plainly favors it.

If you locked in a high rate simply because that was the market on the day you bought, set a reminder to revisit it every time rates dip. The loan you signed is not a life sentence.

You are not to blame. You are also not powerless.

None of this is about blaming yourself for a gap you did not design. The disparity is real, it is well documented, and it deserves the policy attention it is slowly beginning to attract.

But while that larger repair grinds through the system, the leverage you hold as an individual buyer is very real. Knowing the going rate, gathering a handful of quotes, comparing the APR, and keeping an eye on refinancing are not glamorous. They are the boring, powerful kind of moves that quietly keep tens of thousands of dollars in your account over the life of a loan.

You are already buying homes in record numbers.

You may as well stop overpaying for them.