One way to start out in this field is by enrolling in any of the dental assisting training programs that are offered by different colleges and universities. If you enroll in one of these programs, you will be trained as a dental assistant. The benefit of training as a dental assistant is that the position acts as a stepping stone to becoming a dental hygienist.
What is the difference between a dental assistant and a dental hygienist?
To any person outside the dental field, the duties that are performed by a dental hygienist and a dental assistant seem interchangeable, but there are some similarities and differences between the two careers. Below is an outline of what dental assistants and dental hygienists do.
What dental assistants do
Collaborate with patients prior to, during and after a medical procedure. This involves providing care and instructions to patients.
Help the dentist during various medical procedures.
Take and process x-ray images of teeth.
Prepare and sterilize equipment and instruments.
Perform office duties such as scheduling patients and maintaining the dental records of patients.
Take tooth impressions.
Teach patients about proper oral hygiene care.
What dental hygienists do
Dental hygienists perform some of the duties that are performed by dental assistants. In addition to this, dental hygienists also perform the following duties:
Gather information about the medical and oral health of a patient.
Clean teeth by removing stains, calculus and plaque from their surfaces.
Create molds of the teeth of patients to aid in the evaluation of treatment.
Monitor the condition of teeth and providing the information to the dentist.
Treat teeth using fluorides as well as other agents that prevent tooth decay.
Administer local anesthesia before a procedure is performed.
Remove dressings and sutures after different medical procedures.
Why you’d want to move from a dental assistant to a dental hygienist
Working as dental hygienist gives you more opportunities since you have more skills than a dental assistant. Therefore, while you are equipped with skills in clinical, laboratory and radiographic procedures as a dental assistant, you will have an even broader scope of skills and knowledge working as a dental hygienist, which equates to higher pay.
I apologize to regular readers, as you have seen this post in the recent past. However, this deal was a reader favorite, so I wanted to let you know IT’S BACK! Check it out, and see the new dates where you can take advantage.
We’ve already booked our big summer vacation for the year, and I’m super excited about it. It’s going to be a big, extended family trip for the ages. On top of it, we’re also tossing around a couple of ideas for mid-week road trips. Summer 2016 is going to be good times.
Part of me wishes we had waited to book, though. Here’s why:
TripAdvisor Rewards You for Booking Your Summer Vacation
Let’s say we booked a trip to Las Vegas. We would book our hotel before May 23rd, and then the next day we would get our Viator code. In Vegas, we’d likely purchase the Las Vegas Explorer Pass, which would get us into three attractions of our choice for only $74.99 per adult. For ten people, costs would come to $719.90 when we account for child pricing. The coupon code would save us $143.98.
I think you’ve got the idea. TripAdvisor allows you to book hotels in virtually any region, and also allows you to check out some of the most reliable reviews on the interwebs while you’re at it. Because they own Viator, you’ll be able to find discounted tours and attractions in virtually any region, too.
If you’re unlike me and haven’t booked your summer vacation yet, be sure to check this promotion out. It could just save you some big bucks.
*This post contains affiliate links. Thank you for supporting the blog, and I hope they help you save a ton on your vacation!*
When the husband and I were newly dating, we found ourselves at a Chinese buffet. We were still making googly eyes at each other over the table; that’s how young our love was.
We broke our gaze for a brief moment to look over our place mats, which had a pictorial list of all the signs of the Chinese zodiac. It told us that our respective animals were meant to be together. Then, when my future husband opened his fortune cookie, it taught him how to say my animal in Mandarin.
Of course, that’s not why we got married, but it was a happy sign to two new lovers.
$20 Date Night: Chinese Zodiac Art Installation
Many years and a couple children later, we went on a much needed date night. We don’t do enough of those anymore. We decided to make it an under $20 affair, and spent $9 total to go see the newest art installation at the Carnegie Museum of Natural History. (If you’re a yinzer wondering how that’s possible, read on.)
On display was Ai Weiwei’s Circle of Animals/Zodiac Heads. Ai created them in honor of a similar installation that appeared as a clock-like display in front of a royal building in Beijing. The original installation was destroyed by the British in the 1800s.
Ai’s pretty political, so when he spoke out against the communist regime, he was imprisoned. Even through his imprisonment, this installation toured the world. Ai was eventually released. Currently, he’s in Greece helping with the refugee crisis.
But now his art is here in Pittsburgh, and it was impressive to behold. In the Carnegie Museum, it is displayed in the self-same hall that we visited whenever we were pursuing our staycation-esque Paris in Pittsburgh project. This room is full of European reliefs, including a massive structure that replicates the front of the Cathedral of Saint-Andre (Bordeaux,) which was built in the 13th century. As you walk around and take pictures, it creates a powerful mesh of two very old traditions, contrasting the East and the West.
As we walked around, I couldn’t help but question: was there a geometric relation to the signs that did well together or the signs that were enemies? Were these animals based on constellations in their relationship to the moon? (It is a lunar calendar, after all.)
Why the Chinese Zodiac is Important to Your Wallet
The answers I found weren’t necessarily what I was expecting, but they were amazing. Believe it or not, the Chinese Zodiac is important to your wallet, even if you think it’s all bull.
Normally I’d expand, but this is only a six-minute video and I really want you to watch it as ShaoLan explains it natively—something I can’t do. Here’s some of the things you’ll learn:
Even if you think the Chinese Zodiac is in no way predictive or real, a quarter of the world’s population would argue with you. With that many people making decisions (sometimes financial) based on this belief, it doesn’t really matter if you believe or not—you will experience the influence of others’ beliefs.
Why the world’s richest people are born in unlucky years.
How the Chinese Zodiac is now affecting the stock market. As world economies become increasingly interdependent, this is something investors are going to want to understand.
The Art and How the Chinese Zodiac Applies to You
The Chinese calendar is not linear like our own, but cyclical. It runs for sixty years and then starts over again. During those sixty years, five elements and twelve animals interact with each other. Below you’ll find which animal (and which element) you are.
Want to be super cool? Pin your animal using the Pinterest button at the very bottom of this post!
Also outlined below are the animals that are complimentary to you. These may be your ideal love interests, or they may help you decide when to have a baby as complimentary animals tend to work well together in family units. This is only one aspect of family planning that ShaoLan discusses in the above video.
Additionally, you’ll find quotes about each animal’s qualities from the Ai exhibit.
Best Compatible Signs: Rabbit, Sheep/Goat Sign in Opposition: Snake
Get into Carnegie Museums for Cheap
Those of you from Pittsburgh are probably choking at the price of admission (including parking!) that we got. Per diem at the museums are expensive, but there are ways to get in for cheap. You can:
Buy a membership. From $50-$250 depending on how many people you want included. If you go to the museums a lot, this can save you a bundle.
Bring your student ID. Get $8 off the price of admission. ($10 off at the Andy Warhol Museum.)
Check your student life office. Student life offices typically have discounted, or sometimes even free, tickets to local attractions.
Bring your ACCESS card. If someone in your household has a disability and is on Medicaid, or if you receive state benefits, the state should issue you an ACCESS card. This gets you into many attractions in Pittsburgh for a pittance. At the Carnegie Museums of Art & Natural History, admission will only be $1 for everyone in your household when you present your card.
Go later in the day. If you make your visit at 3PM or after, you’ll get half-price admission through 8PM.
Go on Thursday evenings. In February and March, you can get into the Carnegie Museums of Art & Natural History for free on Thursday evenings.
It all started when I was purchasing a health care plan in December. Prices in our region went up dramatically. But we’re young (ish) and generally healthy, so I opted for a plan with higher deductibles. I was still spending more on premiums than in 2015, but affording a plan similar to our old one would have put more strain on our budget than necessary.
Or so I thought. We’ve had to pay a co-pay at least once a week this year, and have had more health care emergencies than I’d care to think about. Next year, I’m going with the lower deductible and higher premium. We would have saved so much money this year if I had just done that in the first place.
So many troubles that we found ourselves paying thousands over the course of just a few months, only to get the bad news that it will probably only last us a year. So while we fix that one, it’s time to start saving for another.
Then, there was the kitten. In this respect we’re lucky, my friends. One of our children could benefit from a therapy cat, and a family member was incredibly generous to essentially sponsor us. So while the following expenses were heartbreaking, they did not destroy us financially. Though without this generosity, they easily could have.
Chaton and Dog-Cat Frugality
Initially, we tried to adopt a shelter pet. The breed of therapy cat that could benefit our child, though, is not overly common. Every time we found one, it was gone by the time we got to the shelter.
Time was ticking by. Precious time that the animal could have been helping us with. Eventually, the sponsor-esque family member decided to go with a breeder.
We brought Chaton Frugality home, and all was right with the world. Our child was reaping the emotional benefits, Chaton would sleep with them every night. They were inseparable best friends. Though sometimes she would take a break to help me out with work.
A few weeks into her stay with us, she started acting weird. She was eating a little less. She was playing a little less. It was enough of a cause for concern that I took her to the vet. They gave her some antibiotics and told us to come back in 48 hours if she wasn’t feeling better.
I got to 24 hours before I rushed her into the vet ER. She wasn’t drinking or playing at all at this point. They calmed my nerves, saying it was probably nothing…something viral that would work its way out. But they were going to give her an x-ray just in case.
When the vet came back, she wasn’t as cheery.
Little Chaton had FIP. It’s a corona virus that attaches to the white blood cells, so every time your body tries to fight the virus, it’s actually making things worse. It is always fatal. She had a couple weeks left at most, but I was told it would be kinder to put her down when her quality of life got unbearable.
Grief. Vet bills. The decision on whether or not to educate our young children on the concept of death. It was a harrowing time.
As I said, our family covered the bills. I don’t know how to thank them. They came out to well over $1,100, and after three days, all we had to show for the expense was a kitten that we had to euthanize. Her stomach had expanded with fluid. She wasn’t eating or drinking. She literally laid there all day because she could no longer walk.
We took some time to grieve. Our family member contacted the breeder, who was devastated. None of her other cats had FIP, though it is possible that they were carriers. Since they didn’t exude any symptoms, there’s no way she could have known. And truly, we don’t know with a certainty where the illness came from.
She arranged for another kitten to come our way, this time from a different city and breeder all together to avoid any possibility of the same thing happening again. We cleaned everything we could clean, but some things had to be replaced to avoid any possibility of contamination.
We call this one Dog-Cat, because that’s exactly what she acts like.
The kids are adjusting well. At first, the child that needed the cat to begin with was calling her Chaton. They look similar, and death is a hard thing to comprehend.
But her individual personality shines through, and I think through these unique quirks, my children have learned that while we will love and miss Chaton always, there is more than enough room in our hearts to love Dog-Cat, too.
And loveable she is. When we have to close the door to our child’s room at night, Dog-Cat camps out outside the door until morning. She plays incessantly, and is encouraging my children to find excitement in the world where others would find nothing but boredom.
Going out to buy food can be inconvenient at best. One way to cut costs and avoid that scheduling issue is to set up regular delivery. Setting up regular delivery makes it harder to shop sales, though, so Petco assures that whenever it’s time for your delivery, you’ll automatically get the lowest price online without lifting a finger or doing any research.
Effortless savings is always a good thing.
Keep it fresh.
A cardinal rule of frugality is taking care of what you’ve already got. I wouldn’t have even thought of it, but having a lid for wet food is an essential part of keeping it fresh. Kittens typically only eat 1/4 of a regular-sized can at a time. Under $1 each, these lids have helped us avoid much food waste—and wasted dollars.
Pet Supplies Worth Investing In
This is the first time I’ve owned a cat as an adult, and I’m super glad our family member made these recommendations. Yes, you have to spend money, but these are products that are worth it.
This is essentially a door mat for your cat’s litter box. That way when they get done doing their business, they’re not tracking litter all over the house. This one comes from SoPhresh, the same brand we have, and we’ve been extremely pleased with the quality for the price. In fact, right now it’s only $12.74—15% off.
Maybe we have super strong cats, but every time they had a teaser with a toy attached to a string, the string would break in one day. We’ve found fuzzy teasers like this one to be far more durable. They don’t cost a lot of money at all–under $4—but if you’re constantly replacing them that can add up.
Domed Litter Box
We have curious kids. Curious kids that don’t always get how nasty some of the things they do actually are. We knew the litter box was going to be a massive problem….it’s like sensory play only with disgusting germs!
So we made sure to get a domed litter box. This one also has a grooved ramp for the cat to climb into, which both prevents our kids from reaching directly in the hole to “play,” and helps get a little more litter off her feet as she comes out. But the litter trapper is still necessary.
It’s a little bit more expensive than your traditional litter box, but has also prevented us from having to call that number on the Mr. Yuk stickers.
As far as I’m concerned, this is an essential. Every cat I’ve ever had has loved these. It’s a toy, but the middle, cardboard part also serves as a scratcher so they won’t feel inclined to put a hurting on your furniture. Plus, if they tear the scratching part up beyond repair, you can easily buy a replacement insert. That’s something you can’t do with most scratching posts.
Dustless Cat Litter
If you’re like me and your sinuses hate you, dustless litter is the way to go. Arm & Hammer came highly recommended by our vet, and has served us well thus far. No allergic reactions. No need to run out and buy some Claritin. No missing work because of a sinus infection. Technically only 99% dust-free, but total win.
Helping You Afford It All With a Giveaway
There’s no getting around it—even with hacks and buying quality products that will last, the costs of pet ownership add up. To help you ease the cost a little, I’ve teamed up with PetCo to bring you a $40 e-gift card giveaway. It will be open until 12:00 AM Eastern time on August 2nd. Use the Rafflecopter below to enter—best of luck!
A condo is often the perfect solution for an independent woman looking to live within a lively, urban environment. Less pricey than a house, there are also the added benefits that come with the managed maintenance of a multiple occupancy building. You may even get the added security of a doorman.
Whatever the reason for your move, it is wise to set yourself a list of basic ‘needs’ and ‘wants,’ and revisit them at frequent intervals. For example, is it close enough to your work? Or the gym? Is it quiet enough, or do you prefer a place with a ‘buzz’? Here are a few tips that might prove useful:
Before making your master list, meet with a reputable financial consultant who specializes in the purchase or rental of condos. He or she will be able to advise you of what you can realistically afford, plus make you aware of all the extra costs involved, such as legal fees, registration fees and maintenance costs. There is no point in setting your heart on a condo which (for now!) is way beyond your means.
Enlist the services of a good real estate lawyer. This really is one of the best investments you can make and can mean you avoid a lot of heartache and expense further down the line.
Visit the areas you have been considering at various times of the day: the bohemian feel of a place on a Sunday afternoon may disappear entirely during a weekday rush hour, or perhaps that ‘friendly neighborhood’ may feel like a foreboding place for a woman to be alone after dark.
Visit a variety of properties instead of just browsing online. Even if you can pick and rent a condo in the metro using Zipmatch or view the property through a virtual reality device, eventually you need to see the potential home in person. Something you may have disregarded previously may become appealing to you once you see it in real life; if it’s not for you, you know your instincts were right in the first place.
Does the outside of the building look clean and well-cared for? The better it is, the more likely the other residents are to be caring and conscientious.
Take a trusted friend when you view a property. A more objective perspective is priceless when it comes to looking at something you are already emotionally embroiled with. They are more likely to point out the neighbor’s noisy TV, the view of the local take-away or that ‘funny’ odor in the stairwell.
Talk to your potential neighbors about everything from water pressure to Wi-Fi. They will also be able to let you know how often the elevator is out of action and when the garbage is collected. This valuable information won’t be found on the MLS listing!
Always ask questions! The market is full of jargon, so never feel foolish about asking those involved to clarify something you don’t understand – remember, you are paying their salary.
*This post has been brought to you and contributed by an outside writer.*
Attending college is not cheap. Tuition fees are rising year after year, making it more important than ever to save, spend wisely and earn as much as you can before, during and after you finish your post-secondary studies.
For those of you embarking in post-secondary school, you should seriously consider applying to become an Undergraduate Teaching Assistant while in school. As a business student during my 3rd and 4th year of my undergrad, I was a TA for 1st and 2nd year classes.
Here are the in’s and out’s that you need to know to determine if becoming a teaching assistant while in school is right for you. Keep in mind that I only speak from my own experience, though I hope you gain insight from it.
How You Can Become a Teaching Assistant
Have good grades. Most TA gigs will require a minimum of a 3.0 GPA out of 4.0 before they will consider you for the position. You usually aren’t able to apply for this position until your senior years, which for a 4-year degree would be your 3rd and 4th year of school.
Talk to your Professors. Most profs in larger colleges and universities are provided with an allotted amount of money they can use to hire a T.A. The way I got my first T.A gig was through conversations with my management professor. Getting the first gig is the hardest, but after that it gets easier. Once I got the first gig, the other 3 rolled in.
Don’t discount seasonal/ part time professors for TA work. Since seasonal profs are only teaching for a time, I found that they are more likely to consider new students for their TA position because it might be another semester or two before they teach there again. Contrast this to tenured profs who may keep the same student for the entire duration that the student is there. My first T.A gig was from a part time professor. I TA’d for her for two semesters, then she left, but she referred me to another professor which was tenured and I completed my TA position with him until I graduated.
Apply within your faculty. Even if a professor has agreed to have you as a TA, you still need to fill out the paperwork through your faculty. For example: the faculty of business, engineering, mathematics, science etc. Teaching Assistant positions are normally sought out informally through conversation first, but there is no harm in trying to apply for a teaching position where you may not know the professor well. Talk to the receptionist in your faculty office and they will direct you accordingly.
Make sure you’ve taken the course yourself. I know this might seem obvious, but make sure that you have actually taken the course you are requesting to be a T.A for, and make sure it’s within your faculty of studies (i.e. faculty of business).
I feel that I should mention that before you apply for a teaching assistant position with a professor that it’s important that you at least like the professor’s teaching methods and generally enjoy him/her as a teacher. TA gigs are very specific. You get contracted out for X number of hours which you earn during X number of months for being a TA in a specific course, with a specific professor.
What You Need to Succeed as an Undergraduate Teaching Assistant
Okay, so if you are still interested in a TA gig, here is what you will need in order to succeed once you get the gig:
Good time management. Most TA’s are also full-time students (including myself when I TA’d,) which means you need to be able to manage your time well between your own courses and the materials for the course you are a T.A for. Your time may be allocated between T.A office hours, marking, updating class websites and answering students’ questions via email, in class, etc.
Commitment. Once you commit to a TA gig, you pretty much have to follow through and complete the gig, even if you end up hating it. Teachers talk and even though you can technically drop the contract mid-way through that will: A) make you look super unserious and probably all the other profs will know within the department so there goes any future TA gigs at that school and B) make it kind of awkward to bump into the prof all the time because she/he works in your faculty of studies or worse yet, you have him/her again for a future course. This is why it’s so important to have a mutual respect and also enjoy the prof’s teaching style and personality.
Patience. When you get a TA gig, you normally also get assigned office hours and a room to see students. These hours are mandatory, and you are normally required to attend all of them. During these hours students can come and see you for questions they may have on the course material. Everyone learns differently and at different rates, so if you are the type who gets frustrated explaining yourself ten different times in different ways, you may find this position challenging. Even still, I think it’s a great opportunity to pursue as it will help teach patience if you need more of it.
Good relationship with your assigned professor. Even though technically the faculty hires you, your assigned professor is your boss, so if you don’t like your boss, you may not like your gig. It’s their class, their rules. You’re just there to help.
Benefits of Being an Undergraduate Teaching Assistant
Pays way more than minimum wage. I can’t speak for all schools, but when I was a TA I received about $5-$7/hour more than minimum wage.
Most TA gigs you are contract based where you are allotted a certain amount of hours. For example 100 hours @ $20/hour = $2,000. Because a lot of the work is done outside of the classroom, there is a lot of flexibility in terms of deciding when you want to do things like mark papers. Other things are not flexible like TA office hours. This flexibility allows you to earn around your already busy school schedule.
You solidify the course material you have already learned by teaching and helping others. There is no better way to learn something than to teach someone else how to do it.
Looks good on a resume. Depending on the flexibility that is provided with your gig, you can obtain great skills like presentation skills, training and leadership skills.
Great way to gain a reference. I actually used one of the undergraduate professors that I TA’d for as a reference to get into my Master’s program.
What do you do as an Undergraduate Teaching Assistant?
The responsibilities you are given as a TA really depends on the type of course you are assigned and the professor that you are assigned to, but here is what you might expect:
Marking. Most schools now use scantrons so if you will be doing any marking, it would be essays, or problem based questions. Don’t worry; the prof will give you the answer key and/or the keywords, and format they are looking for if it’s essay-based.
Public speaking. Many 1st and 2nd year business courses require a lot of public speaking and group activity. You may be required to help students in developing their public speaking skills.
Evaluating PowerPoint presentations. Because business courses have so many presentations, your prof may request you assist in evaluating some of the students in a separate classroom. With well over 100 students in many 1 year business classes in larger schools, it’s not an uncommon scenario.
Proctor. You will most likely need to proctor every single exam/quiz/test your assigned course will have. It’s a great way to earn some cash walking around bored out of your mind making sure people aren’t cheating.
Updating class website & answering questions in forums. Depending on the course, some classes will have a dedicated online platform for which students can ask questions, provide exchange of ideas and download/upload tests and assignments. You may be responsible in managing this platform, but to what extend will be determined by your assigned prof.
Hi, I’m Pamela. I’m 30 years old and live in Canada. I started my blog 6 months ago after my husband and I paid off $120k of debt in 2.5 years. We’ve never looked back since.
The journey I went through in accomplishing this made me want to share my experience with others and learn from them as well. I have been featured in Financial Independence Hub and enjoy all things finance. Check me out at My Money Counts or follow me on Twitter.
When we look at areas beyond basic household budgeting, such as investing, it’s important to know where we stand, too. If we continue to take a backseat, we’ll be in bad shape in the event of a divorce or the death of our spouse. The latter is much more common for women than men, as we tend to live longer, so we have to plan accordingly.
I’m also an unabashed advocate of having at least one individual financial account. Not everything has to be joint in a relationship. Divorce rates hover around 50% in this country, and failing to protect yourself with at least a marginal amount of savings that no one can legally take from you is like playing Russian Roulette with your future security….even if you’re madly, deeply in love and trust the living daylights out of your partner. Very few people walk down the aisle expecting they’ll end up in that fifty percent, yet about half of us do.
From the second we enter the workforce, we face a gender pay gap. Many people blame that on the fact that we enter lower paying fields more often than men, or that we’re the ones that have to push a baby out of our bodies and will therefore be less valuable to a company. Neither is true.
Once we have children, we’re subject to discrimination not just from the world, but from each other based on our decision to either continue work or stay at home with the children. Men who choose to stay at home with their children are subjected to the same scrutiny, but they can avoid it by remaining the primary breadwinner. Women are also judged more harshly for taking time off of work than men to attend to their children’s health and educational needs. Men achieve some type of sainthood for doing so, while women are judged for their decisions to procreate and work simultaneously.
I’m extremely fortunate that the father of my children is a loving, supportive partner, but that’s not the case for everyone. Often, when couples split women take care of the children, and all too often are left in dire financial straights because of the circumstances. When that happens, you’re more likely to need some type of welfare assistance, including food stamps. Unintended consequence? Despite doing the best you can for your kids, you’ll come under severe judgement for asking for the help you need to make sure they are healthy and cared for.
Going on food stamps is nothing to be ashamed of, and it definitely doesn’t only happen to single mothers or even to every single mother. But when you’re in that situation, you’re more likely to have to put up with the erroneous stigma.
Even though my site is purposefully called “Femme Frugality,” at one point in its life it had more male visitors than female. I attribute that not to the idea that content was off-point, but to the fact that good money sense is good money sense, regardless of gender.
(Not to say my opinion is infallible by any means, but the fact that others, female and male, have thought on it or been helped by it says that something must, in some small way, be working.)
This was and will always be a blog with a woman at its heart. A woman who faces challenges. A woman who sometimes fails. A woman who never stops trying to overcome, despite her own misgivings.
I am that woman, and I want to help you whether through a discussion that makes us all think or a money tip you’ve never heard before. I’m looking forward to the next five years.
What is your experience with womanhood and finances? Men, don’t be afraid to chime in. The fact that women are getting a hold on their money does not mean we’re angry at you or robbing you of your own financial independence!
It’s so interesting to me how many versions there are of the founding fathers. From politics to religion, many different people associate many different ideals with each one, sometimes correctly, sometime erroneously, and sometimes both. These were men founding a democratic republic in a world where Western society was still largely ruled by monarchies. They had a lot of ideas. They said a lot of things. Over the courses of their lives, they sometimes contradicted themselves.
Their situations changed from birth until death, too. They were born British citizens, and died founders of a new country that not too many people wanted to do business with. Many of them were, in fact, broke after the birth of America.
Washington had some rich parents. His dad made his living farming, and he inherited his estate (Mount Vernon.) Washington himself made some money as a soldier, rising to the rank of Major during the French and Indian War, but gave up the whole military thing for a while to go back to his farm and marry into some more money.
He then led American rebels against British forces to win the American Revolution. He lost more battles than he won, but he also won the war. Post-war, America’s trade was limited as most of its ships had been destroyed and Britain cut off any economic ties not only with England itself, but also the British part of the Caribbean. We had taken on massive amounts of debt to fund the war. Inflation was out of control. To top it off, we had defeated Britain, but didn’t really have a replacement government ready to go. At least not one everyone agreed on. So fixing the economy took some time.
What that meant was that while Washington owned a lot of land, the people he leased it out to weren’t necessarily paying him what they owed. It was a huge class issue, and the government at the time slightly took the side of the tenants, lightening burdens for debtors (who, at that time, could face prison.)
It’s pretty common knowledge that Washington was reluctant to take positions of power. He wouldn’t have take command of American rebel forces if it hadn’t been for idealism and honor. But he mostly took the presidency because he was broke. When he was president, he was very generous with funding programs and guests, putting everything on his tab while waving away a salary. When he checked out, Congress paid him back everything he had billed, but the money had lost most of its value to inflation.
Thomas Jefferson was also born to a wealthy, land-owning family. (It should be noted that both families utilized slave labor.) He also married a wealthy widow. I don’t mean to assert that either marriage was loveless, but it’s worth noting that neither of these men married someone of a different economic status than themselves. (At least not the first time around. Jefferson did end up having a family with Sally Hemings after his first wife passed away.)
Essentially the same thing happened to Jefferson as it did to Washington. During the war, he had racked up some personal and business debts. After the war, when he tried to pay with American money; the Brits that he owed to flat out turned it down, saying it wasn’t real currency. He was in trouble. And then his father-in-law died, passing his debts on to Jefferson.
Jefferson still lived a life of high society, though. He outspent what he earned. He served as an Ambassador to France, and the President, keeping up appearances all the while. He kept on racking up debt. He lived long enough to see another period of economic turmoil in 1819, which didn’t help. And he cosigned on a pretty big loan with a friend. The friend died a year later.
He made some bad decisions, and could not catch a break.
Thomas Paine was not a president, or a great military leader, but was a shining example of the pen fortifying the sword. His pamphlet, Common Sense, rallied the American people to the cause of independence.
He was born solidly middle class, and married a house servant purely for love (which was abnormal at the time.) She passed away in childbirth, and then he married a teacher. He tried his hand at many trades, but was pretty much broke all the time. At the worst of it, he and the teacher split.
He came to America, and found his calling as a writer for a magazine. As things heated up between the American colonists and the British, he firmly chose a side and wrote his epic pamphlet. It tipped the colonists’ feeling of trepidation in confronting the crown towards outrage and a willingness to fight back. It was the unifying force behind colonial political opinion.
During the war, he served as a military secretary. While he was serving under Washington, he wrote a series of pamphlets called American Crisis that kept the troops’ morale up.
After the war, he was broke again. He went to Congress to try to get payment for all he had done to help win the war. They gave him land (we can all guess how that turned out, based on the previous two landowners,) and $3k reimbursement for money he had spent on war-related efforts.
Paine was fiery, which was what the colonists needed at the time. But as a result, he wasn’t very tactful, and made a lot enemies. He lived in France during their own Revolution, and was imprisoned by the Jacobins. They meant to execute him, but by some lucky miracle the guy who was supposed to get him out of his cell forgot. Before anyone could notice the error, Robespierre had been beheaded.
He wrote more pamphlets, hung out with Napoleon, came back to America, and convinced Jefferson to make the Louisiana Purchase. But he never really had any serious money. He died penniless. I’m not sure if he didn’t manage his money well, or he got into a career that didn’t pay well. It was probably a combination of both.
They weren’t all broke. And why does it matter?
Then there were men like Benjamin Franklin. A rags to riches story. A man who was not only constantly curious, but also invested in and expanded businesses he knew inside and out. Maybe not the best family man. Sound familiar?
The point is this: as we make our journeys through life, money can make us comfortable. It can make some things easier. It can be a powerful tool. But it does not dictate the legacy we leave behind. Today, does it matter that Washington struggled financially? Not a bit. In fact, if he hadn’t, he probably wouldn’t have been our first president. Jefferson’s struggles with debt don’t weaken the power of The Declaration of Independence. And the fact that Paine was essentially penniless for most of his life didn’t stop him from uniting a people to revolution.
We are important. No matter who we are. No matter how much money we have or don’t have. We can make positive changes in the world around us, because the most important currency doesn’t lie with dollars and cents; it lies with inspiration and ideas.
I’m so glad this giveaway is becoming an annual thing! If you’ve been following along my Around the World in 80 Books Challenge, you’ll know why I join some of my favorite bloggers every year to bring it to you. I’m all about reading for fun, for education, for expansion of the mind. But I’m also about doing it frugally. This giveaway should help you do just that with eleven fab titles AND a $225 Amazon gift card!
Interested in my full review of my recommendation? (I’m #11 on the list.) Check it out here.
What’s that, friends? You feel that gorgeous sunshine on your back and hear those birds chirping? Yup, it’s officially SUMMER! And to all the readers of the world, that means one very, very important thing: it’s time to dig into that summer reading list!
Not only do these books come highly recommended (along with the reason you need to be reading them!), we are giving eleven of them away to one of you, along with a $225 Amazon giftcard. I know, it’s insanely awesome! More details on the giveaway at the end of the post. For now, log into Goodreads, grab a notepad or settle in with however you track your to-read list and start adding these titles.
20 Books that Belong on Your Summer Reading List:
Troublemaker: Surviving Hollywood and Scientologyby Leah Remini (Toulouse and Tonic) is a GREAT summer read. Leah Remini doesn’t hold anything back, from her decades-long experience with Scientology to celeb encounters along the way, especially experiences within Scientology. If you want to hear all the dish on Tom Cruise, including his “Scientology arranged and groomed” girlfriend and then his marriage to Katie Holmes, get the book now. Her honesty and lack of pretense is refreshing. I couldn’t put it down!
The Storied Like of A.J. Fikry by Gabrielle Zevin (The Not So Super Mom) This is a bit of a quirky book, but it is perfectly quirky without falling into the creepy or just plain confusing. A.J. Fikry is not the most immediately likable character but you find yourself rooting for him (and his bookstore) anyway. I appreciated that he was a bit of an oddball, because who in our lives isn’t without their own idiosyncrasies? I enjoyed the themes in this book–loss, romance, mystery–all peppered with humor and the format–each chapter moves the story forward in time and serves as an ode to one of Fikry’s favorite books–was different but enjoyable to any book lovers who try to find themselves in the stories they read.
Smart Women by Judy Blume (Meraki Lane) I was a huge Judy Blume fan when I was a kid (Starring Sally J. Freedman As Herself was my favorite!), so it’s no surprise I jumped with joy when I discovered she writes novels for adults as well, and this book did NOT disappoint. If you like a light read with a little racy romance thrown in, this is the perfect summer pick!
A Window Opens by Elizabeth Egan (Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms) A great novel with a fresh, funny voice guiding it, this book tackles the classic struggle of moms trying to have it all and stuck with us to the point of recommending it to others long after we turned the last page.
Beyond the Break by Kristen Mae (Kristen Mae) Quoted from Melissa Mowry of One Mother to Another‘s review on Amazon: “This book absolutely crushed me. The writing is hauntingly beautiful and full of depth, with well-rounded characters and gorgeous imagery. As a card-carrying heterosexual, I expected to feel a little squirmy about the girl-on-girl aspect and was just reading because I love this author’s writing. I was SO WRONG. The sex was, in a word, mind-blowing. None of that lazy, euphemistic smut book language (you won’t find talk of anyone’s blossoming flower here) just seriously hot, almost artistic love scenes. Hazel is a flawed but loveable main character with a haunting past and so much dimension. Claire is absolutely magnetic; even I was attracted to her. You owe yourself the pleasure–and I do mean pleasure–of reading this book. It will change everything you thought you knew about love, sexual attraction, and chemistry.”
Summer Sisters by Judy Blume (Herd Management)Summer Sisters provides a fascinating view into the inner workings and dynamics of a close female friendship over the duration of their journey from young teens into adulthood. Many women will be able to relate to the power that female friends have over one another’s hearts, and their ability to shatter them completely sometimes. Riveting, relatable, and emotional.
The Weekenders by Mary Kay Andrews (Confessions of a Mommyaholic) This summer/beach town set book is the absolute perfect read this summer while you are sitting beach or poolside that is filled with just enough intrigue, suspense, drama, romance and more.
Mud Vein by Tarryn Fisher (See Mom Click) This is one of those books that draws you in and won’t let go, even after you’ve put it down. Senna Richard wakes up on her 33rdbirthday, locked in a house in the snow in the middle of nowhere, full of clues she has to piece together to gain her freedom. Not just a mystery, but a rip-your-heart-out love story, the author keeps you guessing while you become totally wrapped up in these characters’ lives.
Dear Mr. You by Mary-Louise Parker (Shakespeare’s Mom) In this collection of personal essays, Parker writes beautifully about her encounters and relationships with various men in her life – everyone from her grandfather to ex-boyfriends, to, in an essay that manages to be both brutal and hilarious, a male goat. I read the whole book in one day. I had to ignore my children and personal hygiene to do it, but finding myself sucked into the book’s spellbinding word-webs was totally worth it.
Not Without My Father by Andra Watkins (Andra Watkins, New York Times best seller and 2015 National Book Award nominee). Sarah Cottrell of The Huffington Post calls it “one literary ride you do not want to miss!” Reader Claris explains why everyone should read Not Without My Father in her Amazon review: “Andra really made me stop and think how important each moment in life is. If we live in each moment – really LIVE – we won’t be as likely to miss making that moment an important memory. I expected to read a story about a memorable walk, but it turned into a thought-provoking quest to truly focus on the wonderful family and friends that I have and not miss making memories with them.”
Totto-chan: The Little Girl at the Window by Tetsuko Kuroyangi (Femme Frugality) This true story of alternative education in WWII era Japan serves to inspire. If you’ve ever known a kid that doesn’t seem to fit into a traditional education system, Tetsuko Kuroyangi’s story will warm your heart and give you hope. Kuroyangi, after getting kicked out of a traditional school, grew up to be one of Japan’s media sweethearts and a great, hands-on philanthropist.
A Desperate Fortune by Susanna Kearsley (The Whimsy One) will take you on a waltz between present day and the 18th century as Sara (present day) tries to decipher a journal written by Mary during the Jacobites uprising in Paris (1732) what she discovers in the handwritten pages is not at all what she was expecting.
Summerlong by Dean Bakopoulos (Jana Says) I fell in love with this author after reading another one of his books but this one, a stunning, sad, sometimes funny, heartbreaking, (mostly) realistic portrayal of a marriage in crisis and its subsequent implosion during a summer long Midwestern heatwave, solidified him in my top 5 favorite authors.
Mosquitoland by David Arnold (Kiss My List) You will not regret spending an afternoon curled up with this smart, funny, and poignant novel about a teenage girl’s bus ride back to her mom in Cleveland. Mim’s journey from Mississippi is filled with people who could be fascinating main characters in their own books.
Before the Fall by Noah Hawley (The Golden Spoons) Hawley alternates between perspectives of different characters as well as switches from past to present in this story of 11 people – some connected, some seemingly out of place – whose lives are changed or lost when their private jet goes down in the Atlantic Ocean off the coast of Martha’s Vineyard on a foggy August night.
The Silkworm by Robert Galbraith (The Lieber Family) This second Cormoran Strike novel follows our detective as he investigates the disappearance and later death of a controversial, not-well liked author whose last novel didn’t have anything nice to say about…well, anyone!
You: A Novel by Caroline Kepnes (Pulling Taffy) If you love a good, creepy thriller, with an occasional chuckle, this is a great summer read. By the end you will be rooting for the serial killer and hoping his intended victim dies (Please. End. Her. Incessant. Whining.)
The Show by Filip Syta (Normal Level of Crazy) I’m taken by Amazon’s description of the book, “Think of the greatest tech company in the world. Imagine getting a job there. Picture the perks: free gourmet food, free booze, a gym, a swimming pool, and a holiday bonus . . . every month. Brilliant coworkers. No dress code. Great parties. More money. Everyone’s admiration.” You know there are inevitably problems that will arise, but it sounds so exotic in comparison to my world, that I can’t wait to dig in!
The Tulip Factory by Kacie Davis Idol (The Mom of the Year) Amazon’s description makes it sound like the perfect dreamy, fun summer book: “Before they exchange even a single word, Corrine knows that James will change everything. And sure enough, their serendipitous meeting in a North Carolina coffee shop sets off a whirlwind of desire and possibilities for the two.”
Delight in the books and use the giftcard to get any others that are on your summer reading list–or for this sweet amount, even snag a new Kindle for reading on-the-go! As long as you are 18 or older and live in the continental United States, you are eligible to enter the Rafflecopter below. All entries must be received before 7/8/16 at 5:30am ET.
Here’s to a summer of fab books, friends! And as always, happy reading!
The summer slide is a real thing, my friends. Even for those in Pre-K. It’s so important to keep kids engaged during the summer months so they can hit the ground running come Back-to-School time. One of our favorite ways to do this is through ABCmouse .com.
In honor of the biggest sale I’ve ever seen them run, I’m bringing back this review from when we first started using it in 2013. We’ve kept our subscription since because the kids love it, as parents we’re happy with the educational material, and the content grows with our children. Now through July 4th, you can get a one-year subscription for $45. That’s less than HALF of what I usually pay!
ABCmouse .com is an educational website for kids ages 2-7. Kids play various games and puzzles to learn things like math, science, geography, and literacy. Award-winning teachers and curriculum writers have written a great curriculum called the Learning Path that is easy (and fun for kids) to follow. In our age-range, we sing along to songs, color pictures, read along with books, do puzzles and play fun games like popping bubbles with appropriate letter sounds.
There are features beyond the Learning Path itself. One that I love is their Lesson Builder for parents that allows you to pick the lessons you want your child to complete. If your child is having a themed week at daycare or you’re an active stay-at-home mom creating your own educational curriculum for your children, you can pick lessons to match your week’s theme. Another use for it is if you have a child who is struggling in a specific area, you can highlight lessons that will target the learning goal you want them to focus on as they play.
Before you even get started, you go through “Mouse and Pointer,” a fun tutorial that teaches kids how to use a mouse. It’s really simple; they just click on pictures as they pop up on the screen, but it was essential for us to be able to enjoy all of the other activities.
After the little one’s completed a lesson, they earn tickets which enable them to “buy” prizes to decorate their virtual space. They have their own room and yard as well as a classroom. They can visit the farm and the zoo, as well as the theater which has fun songs for each individual letter. (Our current favorite feature is taking care of our virtual pets!)
I was also really glad that the entire site is ad-free. No external links means I feel a little safer letting the little ones play. We’ll be working our way through all the activities, printing out achievement certificates and hanging them on the fridge as we go!